{"id":18375,"date":"2025-03-23T21:14:08","date_gmt":"2025-03-24T04:14:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/?p=18375"},"modified":"2025-03-23T21:14:08","modified_gmt":"2025-03-24T04:14:08","slug":"becoming-your-future-self-how-to-pursue-your-impossible-goal-and-live-with-purpose","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/golf\/lifestyle\/18375\/becoming-your-future-self-how-to-pursue-your-impossible-goal-and-live-with-purpose","title":{"rendered":"Becoming Your Future Self: How to Pursue Your &#8220;Impossible Goal&#8221; and Live with Purpose"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-18656\" src=\"http:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/33\/2024\/12\/werner-du-plessis-6dDHofabCQ8-unsplash-1024x683.jpeg\" alt=\"werner-du-plessis-6dDHofabCQ8-unsplash\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" srcset=\"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/33\/2024\/12\/werner-du-plessis-6dDHofabCQ8-unsplash-1024x683.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/33\/2024\/12\/werner-du-plessis-6dDHofabCQ8-unsplash-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/33\/2024\/12\/werner-du-plessis-6dDHofabCQ8-unsplash-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/33\/2024\/12\/werner-du-plessis-6dDHofabCQ8-unsplash-90x60.jpeg 90w, https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/33\/2024\/12\/werner-du-plessis-6dDHofabCQ8-unsplash.jpeg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><em>(Photo courtesy of Werner Du Plessis\/unsplash.com)<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Every one of us has a vision of who we want to be\u2014a future self we look up to, aspire toward, and work for. Maybe it\u2019s the person who finally writes that book, starts a business, or travels the world. For some, it might be finding peace within, building a legacy, or making a meaningful impact. But how often do we actually take that vision seriously enough to make it happen?<\/p>\n<p>For most of us, these dreams can feel like \u201cimpossible goals\u201d\u2014things that feel out of reach, too big or too risky. But here\u2019s the truth: it\u2019s only impossible if you never start.<\/p>\n<h3>What\u2019s Your \u201cImpossible Goal\u201d?<\/h3>\n<p>Let\u2019s talk about that \u201cimpossible goal\u201d for a moment. Do you have one? Maybe it\u2019s that dream that\u2019s been tugging at you for years, something you think about but haven\u2019t pursued because it feels too daunting. For some, it\u2019s a career change or a creative endeavor. For others, it\u2019s about making a difference in the world, or simply becoming the best version of themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever that goal is, don\u2019t dismiss it as a pipe dream. Your future self, the one you look up to, isn\u2019t wishing for small things; they\u2019re aiming big because they know that greatness is never built from playing small. In fact, an \u201cimpossible goal\u201d is only impossible if you\u2019re trying to achieve it in a single leap. But if you break it down, step by step, the impossible becomes achievable.<\/p>\n<h3>The Meaning and Purpose of Today<\/h3>\n<p>Now, how does that future self shape the way you live today? Every great journey is driven by a sense of purpose, and achieving an \u201cimpossible goal\u201d requires more than just motivation\u2014it takes a deeper why.<\/p>\n<p>Ask yourself, \u201cWhy does this goal matter?\u201d Why do you want to make that change, or achieve that dream? Purpose is what keeps you going when things get tough, when motivation wanes, or when the initial excitement wears off. If your goal is to write a novel, for instance, maybe it\u2019s because you want to leave a story behind that will outlive you. If it\u2019s to start a business, perhaps it\u2019s to create a life of freedom for you and your family. Purpose is what transforms ambition into commitment, and commitment is what transforms dreams into reality.<\/p>\n<p>Today\u2019s actions, however small, are a testament to that purpose. Each little step you take, each task you complete, builds a bridge from your present self to your future self. Your purpose fuels these actions, giving meaning to the daily grind and lending focus to the choices you make.<\/p>\n<h3>Bold and Committed Action<\/h3>\n<p>So what bold and committed action will you take? Remember, your future self isn\u2019t waiting for the \u201cperfect\u201d time\u2014they\u2019re counting on you to start now. Commit to a single, powerful step toward your \u201cimpossible goal.\u201d What will it be? It could be setting aside time every day for that goal, making a tangible investment, or having the courage to share your dreams with others, even if they sound unrealistic.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine you\u2019re aiming to get in the best shape of your life, but it feels overwhelming. You don\u2019t need to become an athlete overnight; you just need to take a single bold action, like signing up for a fitness class or buying a pair of running shoes. Your commitment turns the impossible into progress. Small, courageous steps taken consistently lead to transformation.<\/p>\n<h3>What Will You Complete Within the Next Year?<\/h3>\n<p>One year is a powerful timeframe. It\u2019s long enough to see meaningful progress but short enough to stay focused. So, what will you complete within the next year? If your \u201cimpossible goal\u201d feels too big for that timeline, choose a milestone along the way. Set a specific goal that will bring you closer to that ultimate dream. If your goal is to write a novel, maybe it\u2019s writing the first draft. If you want to launch a business, it might be creating a business plan and a prototype.<\/p>\n<p>The goal doesn\u2019t have to be the entire journey\u2014just the next significant step. By the end of the year, you\u2019ll not only be closer to your future self, but you\u2019ll also have tangible proof that the \u201cimpossible\u201d isn\u2019t so impossible after all.<\/p>\n<h3>Becoming Your Future Self Starts Now<\/h3>\n<p>The road to becoming your future self is paved with the choices you make today. Embracing your purpose, committing to bold action, and setting tangible goals transforms that distant dream into a concrete reality. One day, you\u2019ll look back and realize that your \u201cimpossible goal\u201d was the journey that gave your life meaning, purpose, and a sense of profound accomplishment.<\/p>\n<p>The path won\u2019t always be easy, but every step you take brings you closer to the person you\u2019ve always wanted to be. So, what will you do today to move closer to your future self? Whatever it is, start now\u2014and remember, the impossible goal is only impossible until it isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">\u00a0<em><strong>Bob Fagan has just published\u00a0&#8220;The Little Book of Questions That Matter &#8212; A Lifetime Companion For Transforming Your Life.&#8221;\u00a0It is available on Amazon. All proceeds through 2025 will be donated to charity.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Photo courtesy of Werner Du Plessis\/unsplash.com) Every one of us has a vision of who we want to be\u2014a future&#8230;  <a class=\"excerpt-read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/golf\/lifestyle\/18375\/becoming-your-future-self-how-to-pursue-your-impossible-goal-and-live-with-purpose\" title=\"ReadBecoming Your Future Self: How to Pursue Your &#8220;Impossible Goal&#8221; and Live with Purpose\">Read more &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":18656,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2107,2109,18],"tags":[3199,3588,489586,723377,1044321,1046224],"class_list":["post-18375","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-coaching","category-life-coaching","category-lifestyle","tag-action","tag-dream","tag-purpose","tag-goals","tag-future-self","tag-impossible-goal"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/33\/2024\/12\/werner-du-plessis-6dDHofabCQ8-unsplash.jpeg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18375","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18375"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18375\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18657,"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18375\/revisions\/18657"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18656"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18375"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18375"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18375"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}