{"id":2524,"date":"2011-03-24T01:19:40","date_gmt":"2011-03-24T08:19:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/robertfagan.com\/?p=2524"},"modified":"2023-04-26T22:25:34","modified_gmt":"2023-04-27T05:25:34","slug":"complain-not","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/coaching\/2524\/complain-not","title":{"rendered":"Complain NOT!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/33\/2011\/02\/complaining.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-2526\" title=\"complaining\" src=\"http:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/33\/2011\/02\/complaining-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>Did you realize that when you complain you disallow your own well-being?\u00a0 In focusing upon what you don\u2019t like or want to get rid of, you bring more energy to it and therefore attract more of the same to you.<\/p>\n<p>This complaining doesn\u2019t have to be about someone else or external circumstances, but simply your own well-being. Complaining about disease or your aching body takes you out of alignment with your highest or best self \u2013 and that DOES cause you pain. The further you venture from your best self, the more you will experience pain.<\/p>\n<p>All this is not to ignore pain, but rather not turn extra attention toward it. What you resist persists and what you focus upon you create. Rather you might focus upon what you do want and how it would <em>feel<\/em> right in the present moment with a whole and healthy body. The same applies to everything else, your finances, golf game, business, relationships, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Chronic attention to unwanted things holds you in a place of not being aligned to receive what<a href=\"http:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/33\/2011\/02\/happygolfer.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-2529\" title=\"happygolfer\" src=\"http:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/33\/2011\/02\/happygolfer-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a> you intend. Complaining disallows the solutions from reaching and positively affecting you. The same applies to maintaining what you already have. If you want to retain your healthy body, focus upon the experience of physical well-being.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Did you realize that when you complain you disallow your own well-being?\u00a0 In focusing upon what you don\u2019t like or&#8230;  <a class=\"excerpt-read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/coaching\/2524\/complain-not\" title=\"ReadComplain NOT!\">Read more &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":2526,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2107,2108,2109,2248],"tags":[3569,5536,2380],"class_list":["post-2524","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-coaching","category-golf-coaching","category-life-coaching","category-business-coaching","tag-alignment","tag-complaining","tag-law-of-attraction"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/33\/2011\/02\/complaining.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2524","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2524"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2524\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17662,"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2524\/revisions\/17662"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2526"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2524"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2524"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theaposition.com\/robertfagan\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2524"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}