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Are you stuck in your dating life?\u00a0 Are you having trouble attracting the right person or even anybody at all?\u00a0 You are not alone.<\/p>\n

Recently I was coaching a twenty-something who was stuck not being able to attract anyone into their dating life.\u00a0 They had not had any success in nearly 18 months, but in less than a week were able to attract three very interesting attractive folks.\u00a0 It may not happen as quickly for you, but the choices are so simple and they work.\u00a0 The following is what we covered and it\u2019s about everyday choices we can all make.<\/p>\n

Are you focused on love or fear?<\/strong> Do you criticize, judge, or envy others?\u00a0 Are you afraid of not having enough or losing what you have?\u00a0 Do you find it difficult to forgive or give?\u00a0 Do you tend to worry or feel sad?\u00a0 Do you obsess about what is missing in your life versus what you have?\u00a0 Do you express anger or jealousy?\u00a0 If you answered \u201cyes\u201d to any of these, you are working in an area of fear.\u00a0 Don\u2019t despair.\u00a0 Your choice is to visit the underlying belief and change it.\u00a0 Fear can also be embraced as excitement which is much more attractive.\u00a0 Every moment you have an infinite variety of ways you can respond to any situation and a love-based response always works best in the long run.<\/p>\n

Do you regularly wake-up early or sleep in?<\/strong> We all have dreams and the same amount of time, but those who get up and actually pursue them are more attractive.\u00a0 Call it ambition, passion, or enthusiasm, but all are attractive energies.\u00a0 Getting up only an hour earlier and learning and\/or doing puts you far ahead of others.\u00a0 People who are more than dreamers, but are also actively pursuing their dreams send powerful energy into the Universe and actualizing your dreams and goals is a powerful aphrodisiac.<\/p>\n

Do your eating habits favor flavor or health?<\/strong> Eating healthy has its rewards.\u00a0 Consuming for the moment can affect your love life and being chubby and lethargic is not attractive.\u00a0 White carbohydrates, sugars, caffeine, and salt are tasty and deliciously addictive, like crack cocaine. Taken in excess, they’re destroying your body and robbing you of vital energy. Eating healthy will give you more energy, more alertness, and more vigor in the short run and the long-term benefits of healthy eating are an attractive physique, a healthy glow, and general well-being.\u00a0 Drinking lots of clean water helps too.\u00a0 The choice is yours every time you open your mouth.<\/p>\n

Do you listen to music or lectures? <\/strong>For me, music is one of my great joys, but learning is too.\u00a0 Most people listen to the same music over and over like zombies.\u00a0 Rather than endlessly listening to music, how about stimulating your brain and growth by listening to lectures on things you know little or nothing about?\u00a0 Interesting people are far more attractive that dull ones, and there are a wealth of free lectures, podcasts, and courses on the Internet.<\/p>\n

Do you play video games or workout? <\/strong>When you have an hour or so free, how are you apt to spend it?\u00a0 Too many will neglect their bodies and health in favor of immediate gratification.\u00a0 The all-too-common vice of videogame playing destroys the opportunity for exciting relationships than you might imagine.\u00a0 A fit healthy body and the exhilarating confidence building of exercising bring you into the power of life \u2013 vicarious adventures via Wii or video games don\u2019t.\u00a0 Get out and get yourself ready to embrace life!<\/p>\n

Do you watch TV or read?<\/strong> When you have a moment or two to relax and enjoy yourself, will you stimulate your brain or will you have it stimulated for you?\u00a0 Will you elect to be a mindless couch blob or will you exercise your brain by engaging in a book?\u00a0 Like the body, the brain needs exercise too.\u00a0 Reading will make you a funnier, wittier, and better-spoken person, which again puts you ahead of the legions of couch potatoes, plus your improved creativity and imagination will create all kinds of other opportunities that passive watching will not.<\/p>\n

We typically find people who are fit, happy, healthy, ambitious, energetic, and interesting to be attractive.\u00a0 They standout.\u00a0 Do you?<\/p>\n

It also makes sense that we become what we are trying to attract.\u00a0 By just making better choices on these five daily seemingly mundane options and also gravitating toward general happiness and abundance as opposed to fear and scarcity, we create a whole new self and energy that cannot help but being attractive to others.\u00a0 Trust me, it works bigtime!<\/p>\n

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For more information on attracting that special someone, check out:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

How to Find that (Almost) Perfect Mate<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n